How many women is enough?

[fasttwitch]

You guys ever stop to think about why (meaning fellow man sluts like me) it seems necessary at times to nail every pussy you can? Is it a psychological defect or evolution or what.. that makes me want to tap every decent looking piece of ass available? My test levels are really insanely high, granted. That accounts for crazy libido.. but not wanting every woman. I think sometimes.. why am I like this?

I have a few friends that are married to one woman, seemingly forever. How they stay sane is beyond me. I am grateful my wife lets me wander. She is realistic. She knew what I was like when we got married, well, even when we started dating. It was understood from the start.

Are you guys content with one woman? Could you ever be? And, do you still feel the need to sleep with every good looking woman you can?

I'm 41 in a month. Will I change or slow down? Are you guys like this?

[usa]

I have a problem objectifying women. I size up many women I meet during the day wondering if I could nail them.

[Chicken_Hawk]

I guess you would have to ask, is it the sex or is it the ego? Is a male slut/stud having sex with strays cuz the sex is better, maybe forbidden fruit is sweeter? Or is it that he likes to "conquer" the ladies? Now I have never cheated on my lady in 15yrs of marriage (but I do think about other girls from time to time...who doesn't) so I do not know if forbidden fruit is sweeter, but in regards to sex...I can say that when two people have been emotionally connected and looking to please each other, WOW the sex is great. My sex live gets better every year, but so does my marriage. There is just something about pleasing someone you care so deeply for...yeah call me a wuss.

Hawk

[HTU]

I was bad when I was in my early 20's and I was also married before and it was a terrible marriage. I never cheated during my first marriage but did think about it, just didn't think it was morally right. Now I am married to an incredible woman. She is educated & intelligent to talk to and takes good care of me in the bedroom. We have so much in common. She is also my best friend. I would never consider another woman at this point in my life. I look forward to seeing her every night after work.

I think you must be missing something in your current marriage, otherwise you would be content with your mate....but that's just my 2 cents or maybe you're just prone to the challenge of nailing random woman.

[fasttwitch]

I do this too. With every woman. I also visual how I'd like to pound them. And how I'd like to end the show.

[fasttwitch]

I think one thing that happened was being so obese for a big portion of my life, at 400lbs. I didn't get much action then. Lol. As you might imagine. I think my ego feels that their is catching up to do.

Also, I admit I like the conquest of new women. This is probably the same ego gratification as above.

Off subject, but, One thing that seems strange to me, is how many women cheat. I don't think most guys realize this. Their wives will do the nastiest things.. then go home to their husbands. They are about as bad as we are. Although I think they have slightly different motives than we do. I think they are missing affection and attention moreso. or letting it get to them and then taking action. A couple of women I've been with have cheated as revenge. This happens a LOT. A few more to prove to themselves they could attract a guy they had thought was out of their league.

Women are definitely more complicated than we are. But increasingly are following through on physical urges.

I have always divorced "sex" from "love" in my head. Don't get me wrong, sex is better when in love, for sure. It's different altogether. More intense. But that doesn't keep me from wandering and sampling. I'm lucky enough to be married to a woman who seems to give my slutting some latitude. We both think that's it's more in a man's nature from a biological standpoint, to want to wander. Where women are driven more by security and emotion.

But.. I do love my wife. I think it's more of the old thing where I love her.. but not "in love." Does that make any sense? The "passion" is gone. We are like very, very good friends now. We know each other very well, have most of the same likes/dislikes and think a lot alike.

But perhaps I may just eventually get this all out of my system?? For now, the wife seems to accept my nature. She's even getting me a japenese call girl for my birthday next month. So I'm thankful for her putting up with me.

[ozzy69]

my story---my sister was a bit of a screw up when she was younger, had a kid at 18-that she couldnt raise very well--so she lived with me and i basically raised him for like 2 years--after she got her shit together and got a job she said she needed to move out and start her life---when she left i felt empty without my nephew

thats when i knew i needed to settle down and have that--thats was 8 years ago--7 years ago i met my wife

[tilltheend]

I look at women as love objects not sex objects, so one is enough for me.

[Chicken_Hawk]

I look at women as love objects not sex objects, so one is enough for me.

Ha ha...one is all I can handle!

Hawk

[killswitch604]

Men are built to spread their seed, and so we will always find numerous women physically attractive. I think there are numerous social, spiritual, and biological components that come into play in regards to our sexuality. I had a girlfriend who got real into the swinger lifestyle and wanted me to get involved, as well. Disagreements over that are what ended that relationship, because I couldn't see myself doing that. Hypothetically, even if I had tried it, I wouldn't have been interested in it as a lifestyle, and that was how she lived. Some people are just different. Having said that, I'd be happy with just one woman who is on the same page as me.